She Never Cries In Public
But the Armor is Getting Heavy
Be strong. Be perfect. Hold it all together.
That is what the high-achieving, Alpha Woman is conditioned to believe. And she lives up to the call with excellence.
Skilled at presenting all buttoned up, responsible and never showing weakness. She cries in the shower, in the closet or in the car. But never in front of others.
But one day, the armor gets too heavy to carry. The role is no longer comfortable to play. She recognizes that something needs to change, but what and how?
Where does she go to be supported and not judged? Who will understand her experiences and has the wisdom to guide her forward?
I support Her. I understand Her. I have wisdom for Her.
I am Her.
I have lived this and come out on the other side. Thriving in many areas and still growing in others. My life has been filled with responsibilities, disappointments, wrong moves and much success; but one day I woke up and said “I’m dropping the unnecessary weight.”
And so I did.
The main weight, a 28-year toxic marriage. It took courage to walk away, to disappoint and impact the people I loved. The weight of everyone’s feelings was one of the heaviest things I had to put down. I had to recognize that each person has their own experience, their own emotions, their own response to change; and it was not my responsibility to make my healing comfortable for everyone else. I had empathy. And I loved myself enough to let them grow through the process and find their own way to acceptance.
I found my way out, up and forward into a life that is mine. The way I want it. The way God designed for me to create it. Free, fun and showing others the way.
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I really appreciate your perspective and lessons that you share from your personal journey ♥️👏🏿🥹